About Darja

Darja Wagner is a cell biologist PhD living in Berlin, Germany. She is a mother of two sons, both born after the age of 35.

Alcohol and making babies – too many false alarms?

How much wine is safe when trying to conceive? Alcohol exposure in pregnancy carries risks, sure. It has been known for decades that alcohol use while trying to conceive and later in pregnancy can lead to a variety of effects on physical, mental and behavioral development of babies. However, how much alcohol at what time of [...]

Alcohol and making babies – too many false alarms?2017-10-13T12:01:41+01:00

Fertility bloodwork: 7 hormones which are most important for fertility

Image credit: Tuomas Lehtinen at FreeDigitalPhotos.net What hormones are tested for fertility? This happens to me often: a woman writes to me and tells me all about her fertility journey and asks a ton of questions. Then I say: all right, but could you please send me your recent bloodwork? Then the woman sends me a [...]

Fertility bloodwork: 7 hormones which are most important for fertility2017-10-13T12:01:41+01:00

How to know if your guy wants to commit and have a baby with you

Image credit: Stuart Miles at FreeDigitalPhotos.net When I coach women over 35 there is the side-effect that I get to hear a lot about their relationships. Eventually I noticed that some patterns repeat quite often. In this post I would like to address the mistakes which women mostly make in the early days of their relationships (and [...]

How to know if your guy wants to commit and have a baby with you2017-10-13T12:01:41+01:00

Is it possible to increase AMH levels?

Image credit: hadkhanong at FreeDigitalPhotos.net AMH (Anti-Müllerian Hormone) is a hormone secreted in the granulosa cells (satellite cells which surround eggs) and its robustness and stability throughout the cycle makes it the most important parameter in terms of predicting ovarian reserve. A simple blood test taken on any day of the cycle will give you this [...]

Is it possible to increase AMH levels?2017-10-13T12:01:41+01:00

Diagnosed with low ovarian reserve? A little story about how this blog started.

Image courtesy: jscreationzs at FreeDigitalPhotos.net Getting pregnant always looked like something that happens easily, so I've spent decades believing that (and doing everything possible to make it not happen). When I only think of all the sex I did not enjoy because I was subconsciously busy calculating my fertile days and obsessing about condoms not being [...]

Diagnosed with low ovarian reserve? A little story about how this blog started.2017-10-13T12:01:41+01:00

Extra-weight does decrease your chances of getting pregnant

Image courtesy: marin at FreeDigitalPhotos.net I will start this post by telling a little secret. In my counseling sessions, I sometimes insist on having video chats on Skype, for the reason that I like to see the women I'm talking to. Why do I need to see them? Because even when they're directly asked, women will not [...]

Extra-weight does decrease your chances of getting pregnant2017-10-13T12:01:43+01:00

Is PGS worth it? Probably not, and here is why

Photo courtesy: jesadaphorn at FreeDigitalPhotos.net There are people in this world such as fertility specialists on CHR (Center for Human Reproduction in New York) who are true magicians in making women pregnant and who really understand the issues surrounding low ovarian reserve or bad egg quality in women over forty. So when they say that the [...]

Is PGS worth it? Probably not, and here is why2017-10-13T12:01:43+01:00

Do you know your AMH and FSH levels?

My best friend is thirty-nine and is still postponing having a baby. We have discussed all kinds of fertility topics for years - from egg freezing, to low ovarian reserve, tracking ovulation etc., and still she would not even go to a doctor to find out about her AMH or FSH. “What if it's bad?” she says. “Then [...]

Do you know your AMH and FSH levels?2017-10-13T12:01:43+01:00
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